Been There. Done That. Still Standing.
I’m Bobby D — not a guru, not a therapist, not your know-it-all friend. I’m just a guy who’s made plenty of mistakes, learned the hard way, and lived to talk about it. I’ve had high points and hit rock bottom. I’ve experienced heartbreak, career setbacks, family struggles, and some nights I didn’t think I’d make it through. But I did. And through it all, I’ve found that one of the most powerful things we can offer another person is unbiased life advice. No judgment. No agenda. Just perspective rooted in reality.
When I say I care, I mean it. I created this space because I understand how lonely it feels when you’re facing something that seems bigger than you. People come to me with real problems — not just everyday annoyances, but moments that can change a life. They’re not looking for clichés or empty motivation. They want clarity. They want guidance. They want someone to care enough to tell them the truth, even when it’s hard to hear. And that’s exactly what I offer.
No Degree in Psychology — Just a PhD in Life
I didn’t go to school for this. Life taught me everything I know. From bad relationships to bad business deals, from losing people I loved to losing parts of myself — I’ve walked through fire. That’s why people come to me for life decisions help. I’ve made enough tough calls to understand how paralyzing the wrong ones can be. And I’ve learned how to face them head-on. I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I’ll always help you ask the right questions.
That’s where this platform comes in. Think of me as your everyday voice of reason. Someone you can turn to when you feel lost or overwhelmed. I offer insight, not instruction. If you’re looking for life problems solutions, you’ve come to the right place. I won’t promise to fix everything. But I will promise to give you a perspective that helps you take the next step — whatever that step may be.
Purpose Isn’t Found — It’s Built
A lot of people search for meaning like it’s some hidden treasure waiting to be discovered. But I’ve learned that purpose isn’t something you find — it’s something you create, day by day, choice by choice. If you’re asking yourself how to find life purpose, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken. You’re human. I’m here to help you sift through the chaos, the noise, and the expectations — and start uncovering what actually matters to you. Because when you know your “why,” your “how” gets clearer.
Just Me and You — That’s Enough
This isn’t a brand. It’s a conversation. One that starts with honesty and ends with hope. I’m not in this for followers or fame. I’m here because I believe that when you’ve lived through it, you’re called to reach back and help someone else. My personal consultant services are built on real experience, deep empathy, and the belief that better is always possible. If you’re ready to talk, I’m ready to listen.
Let’s figure it out — together.
Throughout my life, I have made many choices. A lot of them have been of great benefit to me. And many have not been. But the one thing all my experiences have in common is, I never gave up. I kept going. Yes, there were times when I wanted to give up. And sometimes I thought I did give up. But I really didn’t. It was more of a break.
I’m not going to write this with the intention of making you believe that I did it on my own. No way! I’m not that good. I had help along the way (and still do). It’s hard to do this life alone, because, sooner or later, we will come to the end of ourselves. And then what? It’s always good to have help when you are in need. Especially from someone you can trust.
I didn’t want to be that guy who looked to just anyone to try and “save me”. That’s not who I am. And there was/is no way I could ever save myself from some of the poor choices I was making. Again, I’m not that good (or that resilient). I had to look for someone who had been there, done that. At the very least, to point me in the right direction. But I had to make the decision to listen. And sometimes my listening ears aren’t all that good.
I’m also not going to write this and have you believe that I have it all figured out. Not even close. I still do dumb things (that I sometimes don’t regret). It’s about progress not perfection. And if that means going through stuff, and learning from those experiences, so be it.
The greatest gift we’ve been given are the experiences we have and the decisions we make based on each experience. We should reflect on the good choices we make. Those are what push us toward a much happier, healthy and productive life. The mistakes we make are important as well. Not dwelling on them as much as learning from them. Learning from our mistakes should always be the goal.
I wish I could say I was further along than I am. But I am better than I was. How much better? I have no idea. I just know, where I was, sucked. And today, I don’t suck as much as it used to (I guess that’s the measuring tool I use).
And now, I want to be here for you. To try and make some sort of sense of what’s going on in your world. I probably won’t be able to fix it. But I can, hopefully, guide you in the right direction. And just maybe, it will help you grow in the process.
God willing, I have a lot of time left on this earth to help others. And that would be ok with me.