Sometimes, the hardest advice to take is the advice we give ourselves. And giving unbiased advice to someone can be challenging. Especially to a friend.

Truth be told. When people give advice to others, it’s usually advice they wouldn’t take themselves. They don’t mind giving you a lit match (when you are holding dynamite in the other hand) and advising you to light the fuse. They just don’t want to be anywhere near the explosion. The fallout is what they are truly interested in, while keeping a safe distance.

You should never give advice to anyone if you have an agenda. When you give advice, it’s never about you. It’s about giving someone (healthy) options and letting them make their own decision which option they want to choose (if any). It’s up to them. Not you! You may have similar experiences. But the way you go about dealing with those experiences might be very different to how others deal with theirs. That should be obvious.

As I stated above, giving unbiased advice to others (especially to a friend) can be challenging. And that’s why I created this site. A fresh perspective never hurts. You have nothing to lose. And everything to gain.

Here’s something to think about. Companies hire consultants for one specific reason. To give unbiased advice on what they see when asked to review a company’s specific or overall procedures. A fresh set of eyes may be what’s needed to move from a problem to a solution.

Think of me as your “advice consultant.” Someone who can give you unbiased advice without any agenda. I’m not in it for anyone but you. The better decisions you make, the better you become. The more you learn, the more equipped you are when you need to make life changing decisions. It’s that simple.

Whatever you are going through, I may be able to help. I may not know you, but I do care. I care about those who are hurting. I care about those who are going through stuff that may be keeping them awake at night. I’m here to try and give perspective on the situation you find yourself in. And hopefully I will give you the advice you need to tackle whatever it is that’s keeping you from a restful night’s sleep.

Nothing is off the table. Affairs, abuse (physical/emotional), family problems (kids and adults), work related matters. Whatever it is, there is always a solution to every problem.

No one can wave a magic wand and expect a person’s problems to just disappear. You may have to do some work. But there is not a more empowering feeling than overcoming. I genuinely believe that most problems can be solved by taking responsibility for one’s actions.

I’ve been around the block, and I’ve seen a lot of things. Now it’s time to put all that to good use and help you in any way I can.

I look forward to hearing from you.