Real Talk. Real Help. No Agenda.
Welcome to Ask Bobby D — a space built on honesty, experience, and compassion. Life can be complicated, messy, and downright painful at times. Whether you’re facing relationship issues, family conflicts, career crossroads, or personal crises, it helps to hear from someone who isn’t in your inner circle. Someone who isn’t judging, isn’t pushing an agenda — just someone who listens, sees things clearly, and tells it like it is. That’s what this space is for. When you come to Ask Bobby, you’re not just seeking an opinion — you’re seeking a reality check rooted in truth and empathy. You’ll get a perspective that’s outside your bubble, but always in your best interest.
Most people are quick to give advice they wouldn’t dare follow themselves. They tell you to light the match while they step back and wait for the fallout. But here, it’s different. Ask Bobby D Unbiased Life Advice is about stepping into your situation with you, not around you. It’s about offering clarity, not control. You don’t need someone to fix your life — you need someone who’s walked through the fire and is willing to walk alongside you while you figure it out. This isn’t therapy. It’s not a pep talk. It’s raw, respectful, and rooted in real-world experience.
A Fresh Perspective When You Need It Most
Everyone reaches a point where they hit a wall. Maybe it’s a decision that keeps you awake at night, or a situation that makes you feel stuck and unheard. That’s where I come in. My goal is to help you explore your options, understand the consequences, and make better choices moving forward. If you’re looking for free online advice that doesn’t come with strings, shame, or sugarcoating — you’ve found the right place. You’re not alone in this, and sometimes all it takes is someone willing to listen and respond with real insight.
I’ve been around long enough to know that pain has purpose — but only if we’re willing to face it head-on. That’s why I created this space. When you need help with tough life decisions , you don’t need vague affirmations or rehearsed responses. You need someone who’s been there, made the hard calls, and knows what it’s like to feel stuck but still move forward. Think of me as your sounding board — a guide without an agenda. Every situation is unique. Every story matters. And every question you ask deserves an honest answer.
From Surviving to Thriving
What you’ll find here is not perfection — it’s progress. As a professional life advice consultant, I’m not here to fix your problems, but I will help you see them more clearly. That’s the first step to change. If you’re ready to take responsibility, look at your options, and move forward with strength and clarity, this platform was built for you. Ask Bobby D is more than a website — it’s a partner in your personal growth. Let’s work through the mess, together.
Start today. Your next breakthrough could be one honest conversation away.
Bobby D
Sometimes, the hardest advice to take is the advice we give ourselves. And giving unbiased advice to someone can be challenging. Especially to a friend.
Truth be told. When people give advice to others, it’s usually advice they wouldn’t take themselves. They don’t mind giving you a lit match (when you are holding dynamite in the other hand) and advising you to light the fuse. They just don’t want to be anywhere near the explosion. The fallout is what they are truly interested in, while keeping a safe distance.
You should never give advice to anyone if you have an agenda. When you give advice, it’s never about you. It’s about giving someone (healthy) options and letting them make their own decision which option they want to choose (if any). It’s up to them. Not you! You may have similar experiences. But the way you go about dealing with those experiences might be very different to how others deal with theirs. That should be obvious.
As I stated above, giving unbiased advice to others (especially to a friend) can be challenging. And that’s why I created this site. A fresh perspective never hurts. You have nothing to lose. And everything to gain.
Here’s something to think about. Companies hire consultants for one specific reason. To give unbiased advice on what they see when asked to review a company’s specific or overall procedures. A fresh set of eyes may be what’s needed to move from a problem to a solution.
Think of me as your “advice consultant.” Someone who can give you unbiased advice without any agenda. I’m not in it for anyone but you. The better decisions you make, the better you become. The more you learn, the more equipped you are when you need to make life changing decisions. It’s that simple.
Whatever you are going through, I may be able to help. I may not know you, but I do care. I care about those who are hurting. I care about those who are going through stuff that may be keeping them awake at night. I’m here to try and give perspective on the situation you find yourself in. And hopefully I will give you the advice you need to tackle whatever it is that’s keeping you from a restful night’s sleep.
Nothing is off the table. Affairs, abuse (physical/emotional), family problems (kids and adults), work related matters. Whatever it is, there is always a solution to every problem.
No one can wave a magic wand and expect a person’s problems to just disappear. You may have to do some work. But there is not a more empowering feeling than overcoming. I genuinely believe that most problems can be solved by taking responsibility for one’s actions.
I’ve been around the block, and I’ve seen a lot of things. Now it’s time to put all that to good use and help you in any way I can.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Bobby D
